Gentle Pursuit: The Soft Approach
- Softlife.Black.Woman
- May 15, 2024
- 3 min read

No More Drama: Celebrating My Soft life Girlies and Our Journey to Inner Peace
Hey, Soft life Girlies! I'm so excited to finally be sitting down to write my first blog post, and I'm doing it with a big ass smile on my face. You know why? Because I've been focusing on being a mom, an influencer, and living life on my own terms... and I'm loving every minute of it!
The vibe for me this year is just giving Mary J. Blige's iconic song "Family Affair," I'm at the celebrating no more drama in our life phase these days. I'm dedicated to paying drama dust and I know someone else gotta feel me. Life already complicated enough, why feed the complication with more energy I say let that ho starve. And let me tell you, it's not always easy. But you know what? It's so worth it.
Lately, I've been all about being present in the moment, taking care of myself, and pursuing my passions. And you know what? It's working! I'm not saying I'm exactly where I want to be just yet, but I'm definitely right where I need to be. And that's a beautiful feeling.
So, I want to take a moment to celebrate my girls who are also doing their best. You know who you are - the ones who are crushing their goals, taking care of their loved ones, and still finding time to put themselves first. You're the real MVPs, and I'm honored to be a part of your tribe.
Let me tell you - it's been a journey. There have been times when I've felt like giving up, when the struggle has been real. I've learned that the key is to stay prayed up and consistent. Set your goals high, trust that God has your back, and keep pushing forward.
And trust me, it's not always easy. Some days you'll feel like you're stuck in a rut, like you'd be better off just putting yourself first and and others you'll feel like you're on top of the world and can manage it all; But here's the thing: there is beauty in every day, and every day is a new opportunity to start fresh, to learn from your mistakes, shit every second. God can cast your mistakes into the sea of forgetfulness, he's so forgiving and you gotta keep that in mind, cause you will make mistakes along the way... but God forgives just that quick and easily. You just gotta ask sincerely and keep moving forward knowing you're doing your best.
So, if you're reading this and feeling like you're stuck or unsure about what's next, just remember that you're not alone. We're all in this together, and we're all doing our best. And that's something to be proud of.
So go ahead, celebrate yourself. Take a moment to appreciate all the hard work you're putting in; because at the end of the day, it's not about being perfect - it's about being true to yourself and living life on your own terms.
And remember: if you're doing your best, God has got your back. Stay prayed up, stay consistent, and trust that everything will work out in the end.
Cheers to those chasing a soft drama free life, and cheers to inner peace!
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